Most young men get confused on what a lady expects. I did a little data collection for our gentlemen.
1. Foundation: no lady with self esteem will want to settle with a man who has no foundation. She wouldn't mind being a pillar, but she definitely won't settle down with you if you don't have a foundation.
2. Direction: Every 21st century real lady has a direction, so if you lack direction, there is no way you expect a moving person to stay with a stagnant you.
3. Friendship: Every woman desire companionship. You ought to be a good friend and let her get free with you. If you get too rigid with her, you will make her want people to talk to. Be that person she confined in.
4. Self Esteem: There is no way you can lead, support and hope to be believed without believing in yourself.
5. Quit Being A Boss: The bossy you is not what she got attracted to. If she wants a boss, she will go to the office. Be that man she will be proud of, not the one she will be scared of.
6. Schedule: She expects to be part of your schedule. Don't get too busy to listen to her talks. Make her a priority.
7. Don't Push: She doesn't want you to push so much, if you don't see the green light, then quit pushing harder, except you want her to keep you cos of pity.
8. Value: Make her feel valued anytime you get the slightest chance. Don't wait for the big day, the least expected can make her smile.
9. Security: She always want to feel secured with you. Be sure you can, then show her you can.
10. Listen: Don't always wait for her to speak, listen to her actions, moods, expressions and heartbeat.
Goodluck......
Okwuosa Maryjacob
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